Anyone can pitch you something but they still have to deliver. Whether it’s figuring out what’s going on in a troubling relationship, understanding you and self-care, or being more assertive, I’m here to help you guide you. To get that life, some seek out women in those countries for marriage.Each time I’ve faced conflict, I’ve learned new things and over time I’ve got better at it, which is great because my old response was to storm off/threaten it which my now husband made clear after I tried to pull it a couple of times over disagreements, that it wasn’t cool.I was so mortified over my actions that I sent a rare email (we don’t send many) promising it wouldn’t happen again. Incidentally, you don’t learn how to deal with conflict by avoiding it…The men want a better life for themselves and their families back home in Pakistan. On the positive side, some fall in love with their foreign wives. The men just get the immigration status that they sought and then divorce the wives.The men throw them out as though they were a piece of trash.
Deciding to re-engage requires us to ‘take a punt’ because regardless of what is said continues to consistently show up moving forward.
This is why it’s pivotal to be aware of what the issues were so that you are cognizant of what the typical cues and triggers are that prompt the responses which they’re now saying have changed.
put a foot wrong or attempt to prevent life’s inevitable stresses from happening, or even try to shelter each of you from those typical cues and triggers that have brought out the problematic responses, all you basically trying to be a Transformer and attempting to control the uncontrollable is going to do is bring you pain and a whole lotta bullshit.
Many Pakistani men come to the US or the UK in search of a better life.
I will use the word “foreign” when I speak of the women who the Pakistani men prey on.
For example, if the primary issue was how conflict situations were handled, you will see whether they’ve really changed when faced with the next and subsequent conflicts.